I realized a long time ago my mom never stopped. Every week I called my parents and talked to them for exactly one hour. I would talk to her and my dad on the phone (they both picked up a landline receiver) and she would start to do dishes. I begged her to stop because a) she was supposed to be talking to her child and b) I could hear her quietly clanking dishes together as she tried to avoid getting caught. She eventually stopped and I never heard another sound.